Sunday, 25 September 2022

Haridwar Unplanned trip



I Left home at 1:45 Mom and Dad both asked why I am going because it raining heavily. #Normal Warnings...

Then I took my bag and papa was dropped me to the station it was raining so both got wet.

Reached station #Delhi Cantt within 15 minutes Dad said happy journey and left...


I went inside it was so quiet no one in security check-in few people sleeping on the bench except them ideal and quiet. #Awesome And Adventurous must say. Then I went to the display board and saw only one train #mine will be departing from platform 2


So took the foot-over bridge and went to platform 2 where it was quieter and no one was there and it raining heavily As If god crying with me Because K ditch me and a 3 people trip become 1 and 3 days trip become 1 day 😂😂


Solo trip 😇✌️

So as I was roaming I saw some people waiting for the train it was delayed 25 minutes what a start of the trip...



 I went sat on the Bench and check the status of the train again. After a few minutes, the goods train came #petrol_tank one with a smell of petrol come from it. I thought it will pass by but it stopped on platform 2 😅😅.



I felt the train got delayed more or what. Saw the status it was 20 minutes delayed only.  So After 10 minutes there was a sound #announcement of the train arriving but they changed the platform to 3, not an issue opposite to 2 platforms were 3. #indian_railways...





After a few minutes, I could see a light coming from far... #light of hope and joy. 







I started to check my compartment as it pass by saw it and started walking towards it boarded the train and went to my seat and saw someone sleeping. 





I asked that guy if it is his seat or what He full confidence told yeah it is. But he messed with a pro 😅 #train is my second house so I asked him to show his ticket and I rechecked mine after a few minutes he left the sit 😂✌️ mission completed I boarded my seat upper berth 



And saw Charing point was working so took my charger out and kept the phone on charging 😇✌️And started watching suits and chit chat with Night shift people 😇✌️😂😂

Can't get away from work 😂😅

I join the shift chit-chat and help them with some issues. And went to my favourite spot #Door Standing there enjoying the rainfall and working simultaneously the most unique places to work from  #Work_From_Anywhere. As the shift was about to end, I reached my seat and Charged my phone. Get ready for the things going to come in the day.



Reached Haridwar at 8:27 to be precise at platform no 2. what an awesome view on the side of the mountains and the other side of the town. A cold breeze touches my face reminding me of Dharwad's early morning arrival from Bangalore...



After a few minutes of waiting and enjoying the view and weather in the middle of the foot-over bridge I ahead toward the first platform to go out.

 



As I reached out of the station I saw Shiv Ji's idol and I knew I reached Haridwar. I started walking towards Hari ki Pauri #Ganga_Ghat After walking a few meters I took a common auto Cost less #Pro_traveler Which Drop me outside the highway walkable distance of 600 meters #20Rs only for Auto... Then with the help of Google Maps, I started my journey toward the place of purity... 



Reaching the Ghats First thing I did was stand on the bridge and observe the view and how it has changed in 16 years #New Ghats and proper and safer ghats for people and one more observation even though it was raining there were a good amount of people in there. Then I called Mom to show her Ghats and then hopefull as to surprise her because a few hours back she was asking me for some advice as she did some silly mistake so she was tense about it. So just ask update on it giving Hope and Praying for less scolding from the lead. Then after that, I thought of finding a place to keep my bag but every hotel not allowed a Single person #no respect for the solo traveler. 


So I just went to the ghat. Submitted the shoe then walk towards ghat where no ritual or things going on and kept the items in the bag then slowly went inside the river. I could feel the stones at the bottom.



Slowly travelled inside the river depth increasing and could see flowers floating towards you. The fact it was sand colour water but the taste was okay. Cold I would say. 

But I enjoyed it and didn't want to leave but after a good 1 hr, I came outside changed my clothes and started my journey to visit the temple on the ghats. I could see people doing last rituals and getting their hair shaved off. from newborn babies' first hair cut to people cutting as someone died.



Giving life reality birth to death in a few inches. The happiness of the birth of someone to the sadness of death one. After that, I took my shoes and left to find a good place to have my breakfast and found a hotel saw chole bhature. Had not eaten for a long time. So enter the hotel order one plate directly and sat on a bench waiting for it to come someone ping me from my team. So gave advice but I don't know they were not able to follow it so add me to call. I sat in the call silent for a good time and in between I got my plate of chole bhature #Awesome Started having it been in the teams call people discuss things. I am giving no attention. After a few minutes, they called me out. I unmuted and told them I am outside and can't help I can only advise checking the configuration if not getting it to call someone else I am on leave...

First time Brutally answering someone or else 99% time I help. Left the call and finished my breakfast it was a good 7 out of 10 I will rate it.


Then Left for visiting Shri Mata Mansa Devi Mandir. Last time I visit I was just 7 years not much I remember. So checking on the mobile because at least I had to keep it alive till evening 70% Battery #It will survive. I just followed a group of people going there only. Walking towards the temple brings back memories of how the path is filled with shops selling from Puja items to clothes and etc. 



After a good walk of 10-15 minutes, I reached to place from the Aerial tramp you can take. I took it as I had less time and I wanted to experience it. Bought the tickets and then went inside the waiting room Mine Was 5. In the waiting, there was a small waterfall enjoyed it till my turn comes after a few minutes my turn came after a proper check they entered me after a few minutes there come to a tramp. 



They made a group of fours and Here it hurts if you are group trip become solo as they repeatedly asked how many people are in your group. Every time they used Ask this question. Answer only Sir. And in mind, one thing K you ditch me.



Then after sitting on a tramp. It took off and there come the views of life I could see the whole Gang and how the ghats look from the top what a view Out of my mind No words It was just an experience for life. The image is fixed in my mind and no camera can justify it I feel.  Within a few minutes, I reached the top, and Drop my shoe on the shoe counter. 



Enter the long queue waiting for my turn. visited the temple and took a lot of blessings and prayed for people and left for the tramp and waited for a turn to visit the view again... 




Reached Down and I exit the place and started walking toward the ghat Bought a Tea and sat near the ghat. Enjoying the view with it. Get away from boring life and depression and irritation in my mind #tired of the similar life. Had Lunch with Dal and Roti and then took a walk on the ghat Seeing poor kids. So bought some fruits and give them. I believe in donating more than giving them to the temple. So, helped people with fruits and some with buying things from them. 



I sat down near the river just wondering about life, job and leaving the stress at the ghat only... I could see people searching the river for coins see them small children doing hard work felt sad and put me in the true sense and reality of life. 



I don't know how time passed by it was near to 3'o clock I took off to see the ghat last time As I have my return train at 6. And I saw a poor kid fall down near stairs of the bridge and Was crying. So I opened my bag and give him a bag of Bingo tedhe medhe #Sponsor for the trip and Saw that I had few things to eat like apple and parle-G etc As I was coming back by Shatabdi No use to it So expect one Packet of tedhe medhe. { Shout out to sponsor} I gave everything away. Then I went to a shop and bought a bottle for Gangajal and then went to the ghat and filled it. 



Then Saw a spot to go inside the river as the level was not that high they were spots where water was not there so found a way to go there. So ran towards that place and took off my shoe and sat there putting my foot in it and enjoying the cold water on my feet when the time passed by no idea it was 5'0 clock time to leave the place I planned to go to the station by walking see the city from inside. It was approx. 3 km so had to leave by 5:30. Started from the main highway and then crossed a bridge saying bye-bye to Ganga Mata and through local markets.



Reached a near station jumping through a small fence saw a few trains stand there going Howrah, Mumbai. I went to the foot-over bridge enjoying the view of the station then went to the first platform to wait for the train in AC waiting Room as there were 15 minutes in Arrival and To charge my phone a little 30% only left. 


After a few minutes, I can see a train coming to 1 platform and It was my train #Shatabdi It come 10 minutes before. So I took my bag and As My coach was C12's Last coach So started walking towards the end of the station. I boarded the train and kept my things on my seat and come out to stand outside the train till it was time to leave at sharp 6:16 train horn and Guard showed green light and the train started moving I boarded the train.  Leaving behind City where Air has a sense of purity and taking a lot of memories. 

I came back to my sit and started watching the SUIT series. 

As It was dark and started raining So no use standing at the door. At Around 7:30 Clock train reached Sharanpur where the engine changed. So bought a tea and started watching the process and after it was done roam around the train till it was time to departure and then went sat on my seat.


 After departure in few minute Served With Dinner #Awesome food Mix Dal Panner and Paratha and Rice And ICE Cream and Curd I will rate it 9.5 out 10 As per train food 10 on 10. As I finished my dinner it was about 9:00, 


It was time I was waiting as the train was about to reach Meerut City where Prachi was born. The city with a lot of good and bad memories. I went to the door the see the city See the Army Area bring back memories and flashbacks Seeing the city After 15 years Train passed the Meerut Cantt station and there come to Meerut City As Train stop it was raining heavily I went out and ran on the platform as the train only halt for 2 minutes saw the development and changes then ran towards my coach Digest the memories Life moves too fast. The train started and it was time to move on stood for a few minutes come back to my seat thought about Meerut and memories and then started watching SUIT Again then I sat on my seat till the train reached Shivaji Bridge then packed my bag and kept charge and Diary and Open the train door.


Seeing New Delhi station coming Train reached on 11th platform I was the first person to deboarded the train...  Then I went to the metro station and took the metro #last metro as it was 11:30pm and reached Hauz Khas and from there took an auto to Palam And then walked alone on the road listening to songs Dog barking reached home changed and slept off... 


 My Sole trip come to end...




     Photo Vlog of the trip☝️


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Friday, 16 September 2022

Things I Miss....

It's my junior farewell time and their posts reminded me it's been more than 2 years but I still can't believe I'm not going back to Dharwad and it sometimes hurts me (#Mostly Whenever Hopefull Ask me to come to Dharwad ). I don't know why but I had a hope for my convocation to be my last day in Dharwad  surrounded by my people... Saying final good bye to the small world i sent my life a good time of 4 years The longest ever i lived in one place in my life. 




A world where i was all alone on my first day. To know the place. People, myself better. 

When i first reached Hubli  July 28 #Arjun Birthday 🥳😅 i had no clue about coming 4 years and how will i live. But now i say I have lived more i thought and have more memories than i expected.

I miss being alone in silence and making a cup of tea and poha and sitting outside my room seeing the rain 🌧️ falling and children playing football...

I miss walking on random times early morning to late night. I miss sitting on a bench in the rain and having tea or walking... 

I miss Dharwad Railway station... 

I miss my college campus and Samosa for breakfast Labs, the second last bench and sleeping keep my eyes open... Issuing book just before the exam my PSID  and Searching for ID Card ✌️ and going to Arjun hostel room #mostly.

I miss going back to my PG with Sahil and standing outside and talking about things that i don't remember now 😂 

If he charge me for that i would become poor #costly petrol 😅

I miss going to the library for studies and not studying at all I just roam around and distributing others and asking for important topics and questions 😂

I miss being called Sharma and Sasurji (Name Rights reserved by CB 😂) and calling CB, chotu, Karan Arjun, Don and irritate by calling Over processor and Hopefull and some secret name which i can't post or people will kill me 😂

I miss my friends made up (some true ones) one sided affairs with faculty 😂😂

I would have missed a lot of things which i Miss 😂.

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Wednesday, 14 September 2022

Akelapan/ Loneliness



It one of the dangerous feelings or situations one can be.
I know what it is like because in life there was a time I had nobody to reach out to.
Just me my PG room and silence and long days.
I had Nothing great to do just a tired soul. And I know it is not a great feeling but what to do with life and its harsh conditions and realities.

And Akelapaan will hit harder when Ur not well and u don't have anyone ask for help or at least tell Ur situation because everyone has their problems. So don't want to tell anyone.
But what that phase taught me is to find someone with who you can share your feelings and if you feel vulnerable and don't want to share them. Then build a diary and write everything you feel like I am sure you will feel like a company.

So Loneliness is not a good feeling and I don't want anyone else to feel it anytime in life But it also teaches you a lot Like independence and how to care for urself and strengthen yourself up and Bring A Awesome feeling of self to construct urself from a low phase of life to great phase of life.





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Saturday, 10 September 2022

Habit of Helping Everyone

One of my closest friends asked me
Why are always available for people? 
You will lose your value... 
Sent me a quote saying 
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Don't be available for someone all the time 
You will lose your importance".
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And most of the part he is right. 
But I made a change in the quote as. 
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In life 
Be available for everyone all the time
You never know when someone needs you in their life. 
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I have learned I am not a perfect person I have issues like Anger, Depression, and a lot.
As one thing I have learned in life Ur help can change someone's life. And fact is 
The best feeling of happiness is when you impact someone's life and made them happy. 
It will relax you and Give you inner happiness better than any party. 
Don't trust me 
Tomorrow Go and feed someone in need with your salary 
And you will feel something nice. 
I promise or take the money from me 
*Money-Back Guarantee*

My father Quotes that 
We do not help someone without a motive. My motive was my happiness.
So, on my lowest days, I visit Temple for silence and Donate food  
For inner silence and A sense of relaxation and feeling good.
Give and take the relationship between me and them.

One thing my father told me in life
That being a valuable citizen. 
It is totally your mistake if you can help someone and 
You don't help them. 
So, Go out of your way to help someone even if you don't get something back  His Job taught him... 

From that day I buy extra Parle G whenever I am travelling just if a person approaches me for food I can help them. 
Because I don't like giving money to a poor kid.

Life and Papa always taught me to stand with people even if I don't know them. 
Because you never know what the other person going through in life.




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Wednesday, 7 September 2022

True Richness means

An experience is enough to change you and your perspective toward the world. 

It was July 2018 When I saw her first time. A small 4 years old girl rich from the heart but little poor. As her family uses to work in construction as labour. And her home was just outside my mess and one day I saw her eat a dry roti and I had just eaten a nice breakfast which also I was unhappy. Seeing her made me realize life is so unequal and the fact I could not do anything great but follow my tradition, I bought her Frooti and Parle-G and left for college. And I was just wondering how life and things value in life change as per our wallet size. For a few days, I did not see her. But one day In the morning it was Sunday So go to mess a little late I saw her running towards me. She was not wearing any shoes running on a hopeless road towards an unknown person with a smile that can heal someone in minutes I would say made my day. I pick her up to ask her name Neha and she reminds me of My sister Prachi she uses to run in the same when I use to come back from school. I had nothing to give her so ask her if she had breakfast and she said yes. I took her to drop her at his home and Ask them to stay there and not run and said bye and went to the mess and had my breakfast and came back. She was standing there with a Good day biscuit packet. She gave the packet to me. I didn't take it but said thank you because she made me realize the truth of donation or true richness She was ready to give me what she had in total and I give her the things which I could easily give someone. And I say myself a good person for just donating some money. Not at all, she is the true donor... 
I left for Delhi the same day in the evening and this time I did not give all my savings. I saved some money for her to give her some footwear and a good book. But what to do in life God always stands against my idea. When came back to Dharwad I saw there was no one at home when I asked my mess uncle. He told me they left work done on the site. I was a little disheartened but life is all about moving on.  But after a few weeks, I saw her going to a shop with her brother and she recognises me and said Bhai and waved at me I was also going to shop. So I pick her up and I bought her Chocolate and Frooti and then I said bye and it was the last time I saw her. 

God at least gave me the chance to fulfil my thought in very little but I was satisfied for that day.
I remember My Father Told me Ones We do not Help Someone Without A motive. My Motive was my Happiness and satisfaction.

Things I learnt from her were happiness can come in less also. And selflessness and also life is about sharing even if you have nothing. 
She was ready to give me her Good day biscuits without thinking about how hard she gets it. With a smile. 
Money is important but value and character are what make you a truly rich person. 
How to be satisfied with your current situation. But improvement is important. 
How helpless sometimes you feel seeing life inequality because you can't give up everything and become poor because it is not a solution.
Sometimes someone reborn your inner soul and gives you a smile and inner peace which you have lost in day-to-day problems.





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Sunday, 4 September 2022

Best Friend

The best friend is a term everyone will be familiar with. Everyone has their own definition of it. 

Here I am expressing  what I feel about it 

The definition of a best friend is a person who you value above other friends in your life, someone you have fun with, someone you trust and someone in whom you confide

For long phases, I never allow myself to bond with someone above a normal classmate's friendships. Or casual friendship  Because for me it was 3 years of friendship because papa was in the Army. 

So For a long phase of my life about 14 years, I had no best friend. Because I use to share everything with papa during our morning walk.

But in life, as you grow up the distance between you and your parent's increases. Secret increase. So you find someone with whom you can share your thoughts. Who  Understands your current state of mind. Some secret.

So in search of that person, I found my best friends.


My first Best Friends...

So I was 14 years old and just got transferred. New to the environment, Searching for someone who can help. But I found her easily. My father had an old friend in that place So Uncle Ji called us for dinner and I found out about her being in the Same Std. So my uncle told her to help me with School things. Holiday homework and other things. I was completely awkward. So when reached I said, papa, I am not going to Uncle's home for anything. So I asked mom get the work from her. One day she came home for something. So I was doing my school work and irritated by not getting a solution. So Mom said asked her in front of her. Awkward But What I could do was I took my book and told the question. She solved it and I said thanks and moved on. So afterwards fought with mom to put me in an awkward moment. 

Papa got me admitted to the same tuition she was going. Where I met Varun for the first time. I think I believed in equality So also had two best friends. 

I was quiet just studying and coming back. But as time passes you become comfortable with people. So I was good at mathematics. So I use to solve the problems in time and just go and sit in our self-study room. Working out RD Sharma. And after a few days, Varun joined me. We use to talk study and enjoying the extra time.

One day she approached me to help with a mathematical problem. I told her the solution and slowly She also joined my Self-study group, Our friendship started building up and I got admission to the same school but in a different class to Alia and the same class as Varun. 

On the first day of school, New World is Surrounded by new people. So searched Varun and become a bench mate. He becomes my School's go-to person. So School end  I use to go by bicycle to school and evening while I was coming back I heard my name. Saw her She Asked if I don't mind company. I said no. And we walk back home chatting about last school and my first day and tuition. It started to build a bridge of comfort. And Slowly I use to see her everywhere, School, tuition even in my society park. And I named her my official Girlfriend as everyone thought something was going on. And Varun Become my class better half you will find me with him only And such extend that Teacher prohibited us to bench mate. And if anyone needs to find me they use to Ask both of them only. And this comfort and trust made our friendship Best Friend.  

 Time waits for nothing. So my papa got transferred and it was time to give up on our friendship. But it was not that easy this time. I had given up on people, and friends a lot but never had that feeling of leaving something behind...






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Success/failure

Success And Failure are like the side of coins As Success is the end of failures.


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Failure is the Key to Success.
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Yeah, Failure is the key to Success only if we take failure nicely and Understand the fact why we failed.
If we can do something Then we should But If It is Just a Failure you can't do anything then Do not worry About Just Moving on In your Life With your plans Or Take A break and replan from the start.

And Failure is part of Life.
If someone tells a particular person never failed then he/she does not have any big target or Their Lied to you.

I will give u a Simple example Have you ever seen the JEE Main and Advance topped by the same person. I have not. So failure is the Stepstone of Success.
But There is never A fixed Point Where One Can say I am Successful.


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Success is like a Rent House 
where
 Who Pays the highest rent Gets it.
So Work Hard to pay the rent.
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Famous Quote:
Do not Worry Something Big Is Planned By God

It Awesome Line To motivate Someone But It would not Always Work because sometimes life doesn't work the same way. But Hard Work and Luck Would Give u A better Future I would say.

Failure is Good Or Best I would say because of Failures we learn A lot but With Success, we don't learn that much.
Example Team India They took the Middle Order Problem Lightly Because They Win The Matches, Now Everyone is Work on the Team because of the Failures.






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